You are the best

 How have I not posted since the beginning of the year? 

I wanted to update my page and give some advice... That I need to take myself//

It is strange to be given an opportunity to alter your life for better. Sometimes we are stuck in societal realms that create chaos and negative mental clutter in our minds. It can slow us down, break our spirits, ruin relationships, cloud our minds and effect our judgement. Speaking from minimal experience but through observation of those around me in some worlds, I can see how negativity can impact your life. 

Whether you are in a relationship; friendship or commitment based.

At a job. Or in your own skin. 

Negativity can defeat you, if you let it. 

Some problems we face as a society (in my mind) are the constant comparison of ourselves to those we feel are on our level. Yet we are in a constant battle to become less like US and more like them in hopes of accomplishing something that they have. This (I feel) plagues the minds of our youth and the women of our nation. You may not agree, but I bet that your friend, family member or coworker, in someway feels inadequate or less than. 

There is an entire WORLD for us. There is no one like us.. like you. 

No one can make others smile, like you can. No one to make goofy comments. 

No one can be you, better than you can. 

If you or someone you know, feels pressured by the world to be someone that they aren't. If you compare yourself to others... daily, then here are things that I have done and will continue to do in order to find myself in a place of peace and joy. Knowing that I am great, powerful and unique in a way that doesn't need to be changed.

- Look inward. There is nothing in this world that is as powerful as someone who believes in who they are...fully. Without hesitation. What makes you happy? What makes you feel rested, relaxed and loved? >> If you don't know... Then go exploring.

- Read.
  >> Have a book in your purse or car for those moments when you feel tested, pressured or inadequate...simply read a little.
{A few I recommend: anything from the Joe Osteen library, A Million Litte Ways or the classic: The Bible}
Or Listen; listen to some podcasts! They are short and you can find one to match whatever you may struggle with!

- Your surroundings. I have noticed that, what those around you say can some how seep into your brain and pollute it like a drug. There is nothing worse than being surrounded by people who talk about nothing positive. They always are complaining, gossiping and complaining some more.
   This can be more damaging than you imagine. You may start to believe what they say, you may start to add to the gossip or the negativity and that alone will bring you down. So again, get that tiny book that is hiding in your purse or hop on pinterest and look at positive quotes, scripture, and passages with in your book.

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At the end of the day, take a look at the situation you find yourself in. It if causes you stress, worry and creates a hateful/spiteful heart... turn around and run away. There is no one or nothing that is worth losing your sanity over. There is no job in the world that is truely worth it, if you become someone who is bitter. There is no room in the world for another broken, beaten down person. You have to look within, realize that you are the best at being YOU. If you compare yourself to others... don't. If you get upset, stressed or worried... just focus on finding something more positive in life.

Find friends that lift you up, a business that you can pour your own spunk into. Build your own dreams! Find someone, something that inspires and changes you

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