Is it raining?

 
The best way to enjoy a raining day is to literally do almost nothing. I have a few ideas for you to help you get the MOST out of your lazy, rainy, bum-like day.

{{First: decide if you are inviting a friend or significant other to be lazy with you. Once you have decided who you will be a bum with... let them know your plans}}

1. Do any sort of "work" early in the day. If you need to workout, pay some bills, do homework... Spend 1-2 hours (however long you actually need) doing the work.
   >>You don't want to feel guilty just chillin'<<
2. Decide what food you shall eat. Food is good. Since it is a lazy day, you could order out OR you can just throw a bunch of random stuff together for something uniquely yummy.
    
3. Decide what outlet you want to tap into to FULLY engage your extremely "bum-like" day. Will it be Netflix, Redbox and 20 different movies, Hulu, a old school VHS movie? Pick one!!
4. Blankets. My dearest friends. Whether it is a hot day or freezing cold. I hate to say this, but you need a blanket to complete your lazy day apparel. Will it be a big fluffy blanket #hotelstyle or a thin polka dot sheet from when you were 12? Either way...find it and rock it.
5. Find your remotes.....I mean ALL the remotes. The worst thing upon sitting down in NOT having EVERYTHING you need...right next to you. Can I get an amen?!
6. Consider extra activities such as: Painting your nails, dying your hair, reading a magazine. Regardless of what you decide....make sure you have everything you need. Trust me, once you start Gossip Girl or Inception... you will NOT want to move.
   
   
7. Turn your phone OFF. If your phone is on and near you, trust me, you will be checking facebook (for whatever dumb reason) every 10 minutes.
   
      >>>>>Let me give you a tip: Nothing new will happen every 5-10 minutes. So shut your   damn phone off and just relax! 
8. Begin your day!
   
   Oh ps: if there is a chance it might get all sunny out.. make sure your blinds are closed. Nothing ruins a "bummy" day like the sun blinding you while you are binge watching tv. 

Other random tips: If you are feeling like you have just "wasted a day" you goofy over achiever... just relax! Maybe make a fancy dinner or just shower and do your make up! You are allowed to relax every now and then! If you are really worried about it- before you started relaxing, give yourself a time limit!!

 Happy rainy day, you bums.
From me to you with lazy day love.

Empower yourself.

Don't let others break you. Bad days come--here are my tips for you.

If you are a lady and are not feeling the best about yourself. I have a few ideas about how to get your "spirits" up. We all have those days where we don't feel that wonderful. Can I get an Amen?!  So here are a few tips about how I personally help my bad attitude.

1. Shut your phone off. (You don't need to talk to the idiots who probably ruined your day.)
2. Do some squats. Those will help you today & every day after #workforyobootaayy.
3. Remove that nail polish . Chipped polish will effect your day darlin'

4.Paint your nails & Clear coat them.
5. Maybe buy a pair of cute shoes or try a weird hair mask {Shower if ya need to}
6. Do your make up
7. Put on some Beyonce. (My fav songs: posted below)
8. Breath.
9. Don't let anything else bug you. If it still is buggin you.. your music isn't loud enough.




















At the end of the day, our phones are the things that bring us down half the time. Focus on where you are, who you are with or just yourself. Don't be continuously bogged down with all the social media crazies. Things have "off" switches for a reason. And you are allowed to walk away from a situation you don't vibe well with.  Moral of the story:: You choose your happiness. If you can't get out of a "funk"  try your music up & just focus on you.

My fav song:
 #1 {Favorite message} https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LXXQLa-5n5w
#2 Best song to empower you-- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LXXQLa-5n5w
#3 Everything else.